tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068164114377460016.post8988735574806236486..comments2023-07-11T07:47:17.145-06:00Comments on the root cellar: oh, wouldn't it be lovelyaaron ambrosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09027168007655481095noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068164114377460016.post-37537743862981122312007-11-16T19:46:00.000-07:002007-11-16T19:46:00.000-07:00hey girl, been checking out the blog - pondering t...hey girl, been checking out the blog - pondering this entry. <BR/>have always appreciated your sense of nuance in these conversations - how you're aware of your attraction to a painful thing (or things), and that doesn't take away the fucked up-ness of the situation/person.<BR/>continue to wonder about the use of the word "abuse" in these conversations - how much does it help people/you and at what point does it stop helping people/you? i hope i'm clear that these are real questions - not rhetorical question marks.<BR/>it's so easy to take either the victim <I>or</I> active agent arguments to self-destructive extremes. how to talk about it while holding both realities.<BR/>i don't know if you ever saw this zine i worked on (i think you did, but maybe it is still interesting - http://www.anarcha.org/sallydarity/IntViolzine.pdf)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068164114377460016.post-23339514977931697572007-09-04T10:23:00.000-06:002007-09-04T10:23:00.000-06:00I think how we treat each other under the name of ...I think how we treat each other under the name of love is a pretty sad state indeed. The cycle of emotional abuse is the most rampant, yet the least talked about in relationships. We can react to a bruised shoulder or black eye, but have usually been emotionally abused ourselves and have not dealt with it, so we punish the person brave enough to talk about it. And the beat goes on.....Jbeekyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14623837533488339865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4068164114377460016.post-32372501743830595832007-09-03T18:22:00.000-06:002007-09-03T18:22:00.000-06:00Indeed.Indeed.Eduardahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03098680340426700868noreply@blogger.com